Month: February 2015

I can’t believe it’s 7 years today that I picked up my lovebug. He more often than not gets called by one of his many nicknames. I’ve never once felt lonely with Freddie at my side, he’s been with me through the best and the worst of times. Here’s to at least another 7 more years! #freddieversary

No More Filler Guys: Why You Should Wait For The One You Deserve

No More Filler Guys: Why You Should Wait For The One You Deserve

Stop caring about those who don’t care how you feel.

I love this article. I spent so much of my twenties NOT wasting time on boys that weren’t worth it. There were times when I thought maybe I SHOULD be wasting my kisses, love, and time on the wrong guys just BECAUSE (because everyone else was/seemed to be maybe?). 

However now I’m proud to admit I don’t have very many guys I wish I never kissed or wasted time on. My boyfriend (and other quality guys I’ve known in the past) are/were always shocked that I haven’t had a string of boyfriends and that I’ve spent a majority of my life single. I dated, crushed, and had some drunken make outs, but really I saw the time I spent with people as a valuable commodity and didn’t want to waste it on “filler guys.” Instead I have some of the deepest and closest friendships around, I’m educated and advanced in my career, and best of all I really know myself and love myself. 

Now at 31 I’m in a strong and secure relationship with the kind of guy I always dreamed of and you bet your ass it’s worth the wait!