6 years

Today is 6 years since I lost my Dad due to complications of gastric bypass surgery. 

6 years is 1/5 of my life thus far. 

There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t reach for my phone to call him. SO much has changed in my life and my world these past 6 years. I wish I could share my happiness, success and accomplishments with him. He was always my biggest cheerleader, now he’s my guardian angel. 

I just went back to look over posts from this day since I’ve been on tumblr

  • 2012
  • 2011 (This post has a few links to times when I’ve blogged about him)
  • 2010

And here are some posts from my throwback blogspot

RDJ 4.25.49 – 11.18.07

More on my fella

Since curious minds want to know and since when do I keep secrets from tumblr? I figure I’d fill you in…

I met Greg through OKC. I actually had been taking a break from online dating and was going to deactivate my OKC (I actually had bought a living social deal to try match for a month that I was going to activate), but the day after Ragnar I logged into OKC just to see what was in there before closing it down. Well Greg was in there. Just from his profile I saw we had a lot in common, which led to a few messages before we started talking on gchat.

We had such good back and forth on gchat and made plans to go to a Caps (NHL Hockey Game) on the 19th. I was nervous, but excited. He was nervous too, it’s cute looking back. But we clicked very quickly and following that first date I saw him Tues and Thurs that week. We’ve actually made playing trivia on Tuesdays a “thing.” The first week we came in 2nd to last and the second week we came in 2nd overall!

He was on a pre-planned vacation/cruise Nov 1-9th, but we e-mailed and I even got a phone call. Distance actually made the heart grow fonder (as CHEESY as that is and I swear being gooey and cheesy is NOT me). 

Saturday he pretty much flew home dropped off his luggage and met me out that night for the alumni game watch party I was hosting. We spent the whole weekend together. Saturday night he officially asked me to be his girlfriend. We went out to some VA vineyards on Sunday for a beautiful autumn Sunday Funday and even brought the dog (who is a fan of Greg). We are playing trivia tonight and have plans to win – oh and our trivia team name is “Slap Bet” since we are both big How I Met Your Mother Fans!

PS – He lives like 3 miles away and the funniest part is that his parents like like a mile from me. We also have a few weird things in common (pertaining to our exes) – both, but more on that another time.

WIW

182.4

Down about 2 pounds from last week. In part to stepping up my running/working out, in part to the Shakeology 7 day challenge, but mostly in part to still being floored that a new awesome guy I recently met/ have gone out with lost his dad at the Navy Yard shooting. 

Best. Date. Ever.

I went on the best date of my life last night with a friend’s friend who just moved to DC. We clicked instantly, he told me repeatedly that I was beautiful, we had so much in common, shared personal stories, and already made plans to hangout again. 

Oh I should mention my date was with gay guy (which I knew), but I’m excited to be best friends with him.

I’ve actually been dating up a storm storm lately – 4 different guys this month, but none of them have made the cut. So it was nice to really connect with someone on so many levels last night, even in a non-romantic sense. 

Seriously…my life. 

The other day I actually deactivated my OKC profile down and deleted Tinder, in addition to deleting every guy out of my phone that is/was more than a friend. I also unfollowed a few former flames on twitter and facebook.

The purge felt good. I hope that by closing a bunch of doors that a new worthwhile door will finally open in my life. 

My weekend – In case you missed it!

My sister was town this weekend for Race for Hope! Saturday was a luncheon for David Cook (of American Idol season fame)’s team. My sister volunteered at the lunch and I attended, but I helped volunteer too since one of my friends now works for the cancer society that puts on the race. 

The lunch had ~240 people attend and Dave made time to meet and greet everyone. When it was finally my turn I had him sign my bib (he signed my LA marathon one too). I told him I ran LA with him and he asked about my time, he was impressed. He talked about how he hit has wall at mile 17 and walked the last 9. We chatted a bit about running and somehow I wasn’t tongue tied. Dave didn’t rush anyone and he seemed genuinely interested in talking to everyone. We got an awesome picture together (see above). I also talked to his manager about the marathon since she ran too. 

A bit later they gave Dave a break from signing and my sister was able to go up to him (the signing was in a separate area from where the lunch was) and tell him she has been there to volunteer and that she liked his new song. He shook her hand and asked her name, so he could thank her by name. My sister who is not easily impressed seemed pretty taken aback by Dave’s humble awesomeness.

Soon after this happened the team gathered for a picture, they have all the people in the lunchroom gather first, I made a comment outloud to the 10 or so of us in the side room (including Dave) that getting these women to gather for a picture was like herding cats. Well that CRACKED Dave up. He was like “herding cats! I’ve never heard that, that’s perfect.” I ended up only one person away from Dave in the team pic and as the group went back to their tables Dave laughed and said herding cats agains to himself. HE THINKS IM FUNNY. 

Dave was super gracious and even though the event was from 11:30-2:30pm, he stayed until 5 to make sure everyone who wanted to meet him got too. 

I actually had to head out of the luncheon with my sister around 3pm because we rented bikes to go out on the Mount Vernon Trail. I haven’t been in public on a bike in a decade. It was TERRIFYING. I screamed or screeched for most of the first 5 miles. Thankfully the 5 miles back I was more confident. But damn for a path I know well from running it, you could REALLY feel the hills on the bike. I really did enjoy the ride and reeeeeaaallly want a real bike. My sister said they rentals were crummy and I would have a better experience on a real bike. 

Sunday was the Race for Hope. Despite not doing any speedwork since February I came in at 28:51 (official time). I was pleased, I had hoped for a sub 30, but my PR is 26:28. I actually saw and passed Dave on the course. I ran beside him for a few yards and told him to eat my dust with a laugh. Race for Hope is such a well organized race, it was my first race ever and will always have a special place in my heart. Our team (well Dave’s team) was the top fundraiser with $85,000 and growing. 

It was such a special weekend that is makes the horrid insanity at work these days much for bearable. I’m actually working from home today because I needed a mental health break. 

If you ever want to join me at the Race for Hope 5K in DC – next year’s will be May 4th. It’s such a great race, great course, great cause and I’ve met great people through it. 

Race for Hope Weekend!

Sunday will be my 4th Race for Hope 5k. This race means so much to me on so many levels.

This year my sister will be in town to run it with me which should be special for us – especially since the last time we ran together was the Marine Corps Marathon. 

Tomorrow I’m going to a team lunch with David Cook. We’ll be a MUCH bigger group than for the Los Angeles Marathon, but I’m excited none the less. He’s a hero in my life and someone that I really admire…and if he decided to fall in love with me I wouldn’t be against that either. 

If you’d like to donate to ABC2 (Accelerate Brain Cancer Cure) who sponsors the Race For Hope I’d appreciate it!