No More Filler Guys: Why You Should Wait For The One You Deserve

Stop caring about those who don’t care how you feel.

I love this article. I spent so much of my twenties NOT wasting time on boys that weren’t worth it. There were times when I thought maybe I SHOULD be wasting my kisses, love, and time on the wrong guys just BECAUSE (because everyone else was/seemed to be maybe?). 

However now I’m proud to admit I don’t have very many guys I wish I never kissed or wasted time on. My boyfriend (and other quality guys I’ve known in the past) are/were always shocked that I haven’t had a string of boyfriends and that I’ve spent a majority of my life single. I dated, crushed, and had some drunken make outs, but really I saw the time I spent with people as a valuable commodity and didn’t want to waste it on “filler guys.” Instead I have some of the deepest and closest friendships around, I’m educated and advanced in my career, and best of all I really know myself and love myself. 

Now at 31 I’m in a strong and secure relationship with the kind of guy I always dreamed of and you bet your ass it’s worth the wait!